Saturday, November 24, 2018

Review Book "The Third Door" Part 2 ( Chapter 4 - Chapter 7 )



STEP 2
Run Down The Alley

CHAPTER 4
The Spielberg Game

        With my list in hand, I charged straight to the stroge closet, sat behind my desk, and flipped open my laptop. But as I stared at the screen, a cold, empty feeling ran through me. My only thought was…Now that? Only later would I learn how pivotal these moments are for anyone who sets out to start something new. Many times the hardest past about achieving a dream isn’t actually achieving it- it’s stepping through your fear of the unknown when you don’t have a plan. Having a teacher or boss tell you what to do makes lifes a lot easier. But nobody achieves a dream from the comfort of certainly. Because I didn't know how to get the interview, I finished my interview by asking for advice by sending emails to adults I knew. I also contacted professors, friends, parents or whoever I would meet and would later be put together together. One of the first people to agree to my advice was an administrator who worked at USC. When I recalled the previous moments, it made me feel embarrassed to have made a mistake. Because of that, nervousness made my body weak. my nervousness made me nervous when I wanted to say, it felt like my legs were not strong enough to stand up when I saw Spielberg. However, before I started Spielberg had gone to meet his colleagues. I felt relieved and immediately headed to the bathroom to relieve my thoughts and my nervousness.

CHAPTER 5
Crouching in the Bathroom

        When I woke up in the morning, the dean's voice that kept me in my ears made me feel still very upset. So I dragged myself to the storage cabinet and looked at the shelves in the closet for inspiration. I also found a book entitled The 4-Hour Workweek by the Ferris team. It is a book given by brandon. I took it and read it, and when I read on the first page, it made me want to read it deeper because of the words that made me so attractive. Chapter four had a passage so powerfull it felt like Tim Ferris whacked my “What do I want to do with my life?” “What do you want?” is too imprecise to produce a meaningful and actionable answer forget about it. “What are your goals?” is similary fated for confusion and guesswork. To rephrase the question, we need to take a step back and look at the bigger picture. What is the opposite of happiness?Sadness?No. Just as love and hate are two sides of the same coin, so are happiness and sadness… the opposite of love is indifference, and the opposite of happiness is here’s the clincher boredom. Excitement is the more practical synonym for happiness, and it is precisely what you should strive to chase. It is the cure all. When pople suggest you follow your “passion” or you “bliss” I propose that they are, in fact, referring to the same singular concept: excitement.
        As I was going through the book a second time, I noticed something on the dedication page that I hadn’t caught at first. 10% of all author royalties are donated to educational not for profits, including Donoorschoose.org. I used my price is right money to bookmy plane ticket. I was so excited I even went to Niketown and bought a jet-black duffel bag for my travels. I packed it up the morning of the conference, and as I was running out the door, I grabbed a onorsChoose gift card from the top of the stack, slipped it in my pocket, and took off.

CHAPTER 6
Qi Time

      Steve jobs once said, “ you can’t connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future” Those word couldn’t have applied more to the buseniss conference where I met cessar. Qi Lu grew up in rural village was so poor that people suffered deformities from malnutrition. There were hundreds of kids, but only one schoolteacher. At age twenty-seven dollars a money he’d ever earned seven dollars a month. Fast forward twenty years : he’s president of online services at Microsoft.i just threw my hands up and asked “how did you do it?”
      Qi smiled humbly and said that when he was a kid he wanted to be a shipbuilder. He was too scrawny topass the weight requirement, which forced him to focus on his studies. He got into Fudan University, a top college in Shanghai, where he majored in computer science and it was there he had a realization that changed his life. He began thinking about time, particulary the amount of time he felt hewasted in bed. He was sleeping eight hours a night, but then he realized that one thing in life doesn’t change: whether you’re a rice farmer or the president of the United States, you only get twenty four hours in a day. “In some ways,” Qi said, “You can say God is fair to everybody. The questions is: Will you use God’s gift the best you possibly can?” He readabout notable people in history who’d reengineered their sleep patterns and set out to create his own system. First he cut one hour of sleep, then another, and another. At one point, he was down to a single hours a night. He forced himself awake with ice-cold showers, but he wasn’t able to sustain it. Eventually he found that the least sleep he could optimally function on was four hours a night. To this day, he hasn’t slept in since. “It’s like driving a car,” Qi told me. “If you always drive at sixty five miles per hour, it doesn’t wear and tear the car that much. But if you speed up and slam the brakes often, that wears the engine down.”  “Luck is like a bus,” he told me. “If you miss one, there’s always the next one. But if you’re not prepared, you won’t be able to jump on.”

CHAPTER 7
The Hidden Reservoir

      Finally, my email was answered by Bill Gates's office, but the bil gates refused him to be interviewed. I rushed to send another email to the people I had listed in my notes. and I also got someone who wanted to be interviewed, he was very happy to receive it and seemed to be my closest friend. When the autumn days arrived, I felt even more desperate because of the many rejections I received. But there was one person who made me change, making me a non-wasteful person and always thanking God for him, because he might have saved the mission. and if you know the world of sportsmen, surely you know a Sugar Ray, a world champion boxer who has won 6 times. he is usually called the slippery artist in the fastest punching at the 1976 Olympics. And he also told all the stories, how he could succeed now. He also told me, "How many times have people told you, you can't interview these people? How many times did they say, 'Impossible?" Don't let your dreams become impossible, when you have a vision, you have to stay on the flight, it will get there, but you have to keep pushing. You must continue to fight. You must use your Hidden Reservoir. it will be easy, but it's possible.






Friday, November 16, 2018

"Review: The Third Door Part 1 (Chapter 1-3)"







STEP 1
         DITCH THE LINE  

Life, business, success is like a nightclub.  There will always be three ways. There is the first door: this is the entrance to the main gate, There are many opportunities in various ways to enter. many people are waiting whether they can enter or not. They can only try and hope. There is a second door: this is the VIP entrance, where there are lots of people who have lots of money and famous people. then, there is a third door: this is the entrance where you have to learn to be able to do everything, no matter how you have to pass it with various obstacles, and if you fall then you have to try it until you can and be satisfied as you want.
CHAPTER 1
Staring at The Ceiling

THREE YEARS EARLIES, MY FRESHMAN DORM ROOM

I just lay in bed, I want to study. but because I saw a pile of my biology tasks in my desk, it felt like I was lazy to study. I want to feel like I'm going to bed soon and pull my blanket. Biology books are like haunting me every day, because the longer I'm afraid to open it, but I also think more about my parents. my future plan is to become a doctor. I have never been the smartest child in school, but I have always been consistent with my duties because it is my redeemer. that's how I found my identity. I could only lie down and stare at the ceiling. I always come to campus to get answers, but still the ones that arise are the many questions. what really attracted me? What exactly is the direction I want? and what do I want to do for my life? I am getting lazy to do my assignments, but I think about how my parents are because they sacrificed themselves so much for my school. I try not to be lazy and do it. when I got a USC acceptance letter, my mother told me to be unable to attend the event. my family is not a family that is poor and not a rich family. like any other family our family lives a double life. the only reason my mother came to USC was because before the registration day, my father talked all night with my mother until my mother's eyes filled with tears. and she said that he would do everything for his children's needs. the ceiling remained silent. I was excited about myself to be active in learning. because the only thing I want is to study. because my parents sacrificed everything. then I went to the library and tried to read and imagine the success of a Bill Gates. think about what the bill gates reached the peak of Mount Everest. and finally makes me think and feel scared. "how did he take his first step to reach the top of Mount Everest? after I tried to go to the library many times, but still. I got nothing from the many books I read. I only get bare hands. how can they launch their careers? if no one has written what I dreamed of reading, why don't I just write my own dreams? that's what I thought at the age of 18. it turns out it's not just me who wants answers and looks at the ceiling. then I run the idea with my friends. And what I have in mind is how can I complete this mission and get it done? why not call Bill Gates and interview him or something else. but all I have in mind is, if I interview him I don't have a lot of money and can't pay the people I interviewed. and I have to be able to do it another way.

CHAPTER 2
The Price Is Right

Finally I went to the USC event. I just came for the first time. many people who took part in the event, I studied business administration in the program. I showed 8 prices. if I choose correctly, then the gift of a hot tub for 4,912 dollars will be mine. and he explained that the three of us who would win the round would spin the wheel. There were twenty numbers above it. every multiple of five, up to a hundred. Anyone who lands on the highest number will advance to the final round. If someone turns one hundred perfectly then he will win an extra cash prize. Music has begun and it's time for me to run into my position. I will compete with Mom Jeans and Woo Girl. Mom became the first wheeler and he got 80 points. After that it was my turn to become a wheel player and I got 85 points. It made me and the audience surprised. Woo Girl was the last turn to turn the wheel, and he got the number 55. I was surprised that I was the winner. however, I am still struggling again to win it. I was gathered by a group of people who had won as well as myself. He was named Tanisha, he seemed to have ruined my life because he had won a set of dollars worth a thousand dollars, a trip with ten thousand dollars to Japan, and he spun the wheel gets the perfect 100. When I guess the price of 30,000 dollars. and the retail price is 31,188 dollars. I have won Tanisha with 145 dollars. how hysterical I was when I learned that I was a lottery winner and could beat Tanisha. who is superior to me.

CHAPTER 3
The Strorage Closet

I also sold my sailboat to others. And I bought Chipotle and guacamole to my friends. But after the holiday I have to go back to school for a spring. At that time I wanted to type a message to my parents via email, I wanted to let them know that I wanted to move majors from premed to majoring in business. if for other people moving majors is something big, but for me it's not a big thing. However, my parents really wanted me to become a doctor after graduating from school. If I send a message to them like that, I feel like I have destroyed their big dreams. I finally sent the message, because my mother didn't reply to my message and didn't pick up my phone, finally I went home. I apologize to my mother, because I want what they don't want. I never knew how I lived a business life and I also didn't know how I supported myself. my mother said "you will never know how you should start in another country, all I know is that if you become a doctor someday, then you will be able to be someone's savior wherever you are. Adventure is not a career, because you will not can ever repeat time. " Then, I told my grandmother everything. because my grandmother is to me like my second mother. However, my grandmother turned out to be on my side too, my grandmother said, "your mother is right, your mother is like that because she doesn't want you to feel what you feel. If you take the current course you want, then if you revolutionize, you lose money or even You can lose your business, but if you become a doctor, they won't be able to take what you know. " then, I promised my grandmother to get an MBA and I would finish my undergraduate degree. finally my grandmother will try to talk to my mother. Furthermore, I still think how I continue my mission. I talked with my friends and invited them to meet me in the storage room. come Ryan, Corwin, Kevin, Brandon and Andre that night, we sit on the floor and brainstorm. If we get our dream university, then who will be the professor? I also answered maybe Bill Gates who would teach business, or a Lady Gaga who taught music or something else. after we sat for half an hour, finally my friends finally returned to their homes. I also wrote the name on the index card and kept it in my wallet to motivate. I will also make sure to interview each of them at the end of summer, fuel. I will soon find myself, I probably will never start. but that is a positive side of being naive.

Synopsis of “THE THIRD DOOR"





Tittle: The Third Door 
Author: Alex Banayan
Publisher: Penguin Random LLC, New York
Year of Published : 2018
Page : 290 pages



Alex Banayan was supposed to become a medical doctor. That was the plan his parents had for him as they made sure he made it to pre-med studies at the University of Southern California. When Banayan realized he didn’t share that dream, he chose to take his life in a dramatically different direction.
In his new book, The Third Door: The Wild Quest to Uncover How the World’s Most Successful People Launched Their Careers, Banayan recounts how he managed to win a sailboat on the game show The Price Is Right. Selling that boat for $16,000 gave him the funds to undertake a journey of discovery.

In Search of the Holy Grail of Advice
The author undertakes a mission to interview as many successful people as he can in order to understand how they got their start in life. Bill Gates remains the elusive white whale through much of Banayan’s journey, but he succeeds in interviewing an amazing list of business and media celebrities.
Fascinating one-on-one interviews with such icons as Maya Angelou, Jane Goodall, Larry King, Steve Wozniak, Quincy Jones, Sugar Ray Leonard, Lady Gaga and, eventually, Bill Gates, lead the author to a realization that their stories all have one thing in common: They all took the Third Door.
Banayan compares a successful journey in life to gaining access to a popular nightclub. Most people will dutifully wait in line at the main entrance –– the First Door. The Second Door is the VIP entrance reserved for billionaires and celebrities. For the truly aspirational people who are seeking to change the world, there is a secret Third Door.
Finding the location of this door and gaining access requires a five-step process:
Ditch the Line. You must be willing to step away from whatever life plan others have for you and take full responsibility for your own destiny. Bill Gates was supposed to become a Harvard-educated lawyer when he and high-school friend Paul Allen dropped out in their sophomore years to join the computer revolution.

Run Down the Alley. Whether it’s bluffing your way into a USC Film School event to try and get an interview with Steven Spielberg (failed) or messaging Tim Ferriss’ assistant 31 times pleading for an interview (succeeded), you have to be prepared to go the extra mile.

Find Your Inside Man. Identify the appropriate chief of staff, executive assistant, gatekeeper or network contact who can make an introduction. Otherwise, you’re a complete stranger who will quickly get lost in the daily pile of requests.

Trudge Through the Mud. Banayan’s persistence in pursuing Bill Gates finally pays off, but he learns just as much from failed attempts to book interviews with Steven Spielberg, Mark Zuckerberg and Warren Buffett. The journey to success can be much longer and messier than you first imagined.

Take the Third Door. With enough persistence and momentum, the Third Door can often appear when you least expect it. After unsuccessfully pursuing Lady Gaga’s manager for over a year, Banayan is introduced to "Matt," who set up Gaga’s online social network. The introduction to Matt gives him the connection to Gaga, and the journey continues.
Banayan concludes his journey with some introspection. Learning the real stories of these icons gave him valuable material to share with a larger audience, but it was his own journey of self-discovery and his growth as an individual that proved to be the greatest gift.
The Third Door tells the adventurous story of how Alex Banayan managed to win on The Price Is Right, which funded a journey around the globe. The purpose of that journey was to discover how successful people got their start in life. The result is an entertaining and informative exposé on how and why people choose to pursue success.


Thursday, November 8, 2018

Novel Review


Hafalan Shalat Delisa



Book title                    : Hafalan Shalat Delisa
Author                         : Darwis Tere Liye
Publisher                     : Republika
Year of publication     : XXIII, January 2014
Thick book                  : 266 pages

The best seller of the Tere Liye novel was made with the title "Memorizing Delayed Prayers". This novel tells the story of a 6 year old child. His name is Delisa, who lives with Umm Salamah and his sisters. Namely, Cut Fatima, Cut Aisyah and Cut Zahra. While Abi, Usman works at an international oil tank company, which returns every three months to see family. They live together in the Lhok Nga housing complex, Aceh. Abi Usman is a happy family, has four godly children with different characters. Delisa never gave up and was compassionate, Aisha was stubborn, jealous and selfish, Fatimah was brave and impatient, and Zahra was patient and calm, creating a small atmosphere in the family. Their lives are enough. Neat and simple neighbors.

One day Ummi and Delisa went to Lhok Nga market to buy a 2 gram gold necklace in the Koh Raisa shop for Nurse Teachers. Abi will also give a present for Delisa's bicycle, which makes Delisa increasingly eager to memorize reading prayers.

On the morning of December 26, 2004, Delisa was ready to take the exam at school by memorizing prayers for Ustadz Rahman and accompanying his mother, while his brothers Fatima, Zahra, and Aisyah waited at home. In the beginning from prayer reading the exam, he remembered the advice of the religious teacher, to remain humble no matter what happened. Suddenly there was something very unusual, the waves of a very high ocean (tsunami) came quickly, people were scared and ran out, but Delisa was still enjoying the prayer path.Disasters destroy villages along the coast and collect objects. Delisa is one of the children who were victims of the disaster. A few days after the incident, Delisa was found by Smith on a hill in severe conditions.

For 6 days Delisa was unconscious, she felt very sad, like a corpse. Delisa is now hospitalized, no longer drinking in the bush, no longer drinking rain water, no longer in the sun. Delisa applies with lots of hoses inside, which are trimmed with lots of stitches, more than twenty stitches are found throughout the body, and amputations have been filled, very thrown, dear, I fared a little girl, but that never though. Based on the data given by Sophi's sister, Delisa was able to meet Abi. He learned all sad faces, he did not think that the stronger I accepted everything, fate had been given by God. I began to accept the bitter conditions that had received it, since then Delisa began to find rote words that were sincere and sincere only because of God Almighty. Delisa lost three of her sisters and Umi was not found in the body, Delisa was also missing, but life had to continue walking, crying and despairing of all problems. However, delisa is still profitable because it still has a father who can take care of him as before and can make Delisa smile and cheer up again and be an encouragement to others. With a smile, Delisa invited everyone to get up again.

In this novel, there are many moral messages. Delisa also gave a message to the reader. This novel has a dramatic storyline and religion, making many believers read this book ... I like this book because it makes me want to read the next page, and so on, and so on.